March 2008


I couldn’t help but think about John & Pat as I drove into work this morning.  I looked down the road towards the overpass and wondered if the cement protected them from the wetness of another snow globe like day.  

For some, spring break didn’t include Cancun, Disney World, or warm weather — but it did mean making an opportunity to bless a community in the Twin Cities.

I received a phone call from a youth group co-leader on my way home from work.  I learned the plans we previously made to visit the children’s ward at the local hospital wasn’t going to happen.  At the same time, I took my exit and sat at the red light and saw the sign I hadn’t seen in weeks that said, “Homeless, anything helps.  God bless.”  Immediately, my thoughts turned towards this group.  What can we do to bless them today?

The girls were excited and energetic.  They rushed to the grocery store and picked out desert and beverages to share.  Together, we prepared a massive pan of spaghetti and garlic bread.  We rushed out the door and arrived at the meeting place right on time.  The first thing John & Pat said to us was, “We get stood up all the time by people who say they’re going to bring us a meal.  Thank you for backing up your offer.”

We handed the pan of warm food and a bag of essentials to help them enjoy the meal.  They looked at us and said, “Do you have any idea how many people you fed tonight?  When people find out about this food we have, they’ll keep coming.”  I looked at the girls and saw the smiles on their faces.  I felt the tears begin to well-up in my eyes.  We exchanged some dialogue and asked if we could pray for them.  They shared a little about their lives and the toughness of the streets. 
We prayed.

John pointed to his pack and told us it was all he had.  I asked him where they stay and he pointed towards the overpass.  “Right under there, but it hasn’t been very dry lately.”

We got back into our cars and pulled away.  Conversation erupted from the girls.

“That was so awesome.  We need to do that again.” 
“Can we make another meal soon?”
“I was really nervous, but it wasn’t bad at all.  They are people, with stories just like us.”
“Wouldn’t it be cool if we got to know them & started a Bible study with them?”

My heart was full that night.  We talked about the statistics and what people say or do to make life more difficult for others.  We realizrd even though the statistics & opinions of beggars may have some truth — they are no less worthy of the love of God.  That night, we didn’t care what everyone else says or thinks, because we knew what we were called to do.

My route home doesn’t change much, except last night, I looked up.  Knowing John, Pat, & their friends were up there.  Praying they would be reminded of hope & love again soon.

It was a day of unexpected happenings. 

Fully knowing better, I risked the 25 years of Midwest winter experience and packed up the sweaters over the weekend.  Of course I exchanged the winter line-up for summer clothing in hopes I would be fooled into thinking those clothes would be like new again and I really didn’t need to update the wardrobe with the change of season.  So far so good.  But we’re only on day 4.  I woke up Monday morning and looked across the field to find a fresh covering of cold whiteness covering the ground.  Overnight, it accumulated to a slushy mess that made the morning commute a bit longer than normal. Yet with a late start and the gradual start into the day — it couldn’t have been any better, unless of course it was just a dream and summer was really here.

One of my favorites of spring is watching the colored assortment of tulips push through the surface of the recently thawed ground.  An unexpected visit accompanied by a single pink tulip was a gentle reminder of the life found in the spring season.  With Easter around the corner, the representation of newness was just the stimulus needed on a wintery, spring day in Minnesota. 

As the last 5 years have passed, so has the contact of a close friend.  After years of failed search attempts — we found each other again.  It made me feel less stalkerish when she mentioned she’s tried searching for me for years.  There are 5 years of stories, experiences, tears, & joy that we could probably spend at least a weekend catching up.  Then again,  we’ll need another weekend reminiscing about the good ol days when we lived together in the sunshine state.

Sun kissed skin and pictures of blue waters on sandy shores brought the day to a close as the two of us caught up on the last few weeks of life.  With major life changes on the horizon, I know days quite like these will soon end, but a new season will surface and the journey of transformation will continue.

 Today, I am grateful for those who get to share life with me.  Three different people with very different stories, yet for some reason, our stories weaved together for a time — a time to celebrate what was, and is, and is to come.

Unexpected happenings steered a day of otherwise typical events into a dance of fresh air.

Life is good.

Will you trust God when:

  • You have a rough day at the office.
  • You can’t seem to shake the cold you’ve had for two months.
  • You think you’re ready for the next “big” in your life, but you’re still waiting.
  • You don’t understand why there is no answer to your question.
  • Your heart & your head don’t align.
  • You’re so close, yet so far away.

“This is what the Lord says: Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and  you will find rest for your souls.”  Jeremiah 6:16

Defining moments begin when we do what’s right, even when it’s tough. 
Defining moments begin when we trust God that He is in control.

Defining moments are when we do it over, and over, and over again.