January 2008


I spend on average, 12 hours in a swimming pool per week.  It has taken 72 classes for me to realize the chlorine is burning the hair off my arms.  Can you imagine what the cholorine is doing to the hair on my head?  It’s time to find my swim cap — that’s for sure.

When I began the 50 hours of training to become an instructor, it wasn’t long before I realized my stroke technique needed some serious refinement.  After my first session, I called my mom completely frustrated that in the ten years of competitive swimming, I finally learned the right way to do things.  I was upset at my previous coaches, teammates, & competitions — where now, I think I could have been so much better.  To add to the 50 hours of re-learning proper stroke technique in the fall, I recently learned a very practical technique that I have never been able to do in my entire life — just last week, thanks to our required inservice trainings.  At least I can do these things now, but it would have been so much more helpful 15 years ago when I first began to swim competitively.

I was really hesitant to have my own classes with the company.  After all, I played a significant role in the development and skill refinement of these kids who wanted to swim.  Yet, I wasn’t even sure of myself anymore.  That is, until the completion of my first 24 classes in 3 days.  In those 3 days, I met lots of kids ranging from 3-12 years old.  I have also met very involved parents.  In 3 days, I learned more about energy, manipulation, & encouragement than in any other experience I’ve had.  Kids want to have fun & I want them to learn.

So we put on our monkey cheeks & turtle chins & tiger paddle through the water.  They swallow fishies, they search for buried treasure, & go on magic carpet rides.    I make them laugh when they high-5 me into the water.  I laugh when they flex their muscles on their tiny arms.

But more than the fun we have swimming, I am inspired by their “I can do it myself” attitudes.  I manipulate their technique, they insist on doing it themselves, and when I praise them for their good work, they want to do it again.

These kids have instilled a renewed sense of confidence in me.  They’re doing these things because I can do these things.  They try and try again — usually getting better with each length.  Some learn faster than others, but most have a positive attitude.  However, there is one Debbie Downer.  She doesn’t like to do anything and doesn’t like to have fun in the water.  I thought a few weeks ago, maybe some of these kids have never been prayed for — what kind of influence do I have in their lives that will help shape who they are becoming?

Kids are a culture of their own.  They’re hilarious, cute, or shy.  While my primary motive is teaching swimming skill, my secondary purpose is to give them an experience that they will remember.  One that they will remember one day as they’re swimming in the state high school swim competition.  One that continues to encourage them they can do whatever they want if they put their minds to it.

It’s a lesson I’m still learning.

Most of us would probably agree New Year’s Resolutions begin with good intention.  Give it a few weeks and our determined ambition is lost somewhere in the middle of our busy schedules.  With some, the lost is never found.

I have yet to begin my “real” resolution.  I told myself I’d take a week or so and figure out my schedule so I wasn’t in fact, spending money like the rest of America on fitness memeberships that were not being used.  It’s already January 18 and I have yet to determine the flexibility of my schedule.  February is almost here!  However, I came across a website today I think will help me celebrate 2007 & dream for 2008 — right now.

 ”If we are to accomplish more, we need to understand where we’ve been and what we’re aiming for.”

Check out the site: http://www.ninetyandnine.com/Archives/20080107/cover.htm 

Take a few minutes and reflect upon your personal “Best” of 2007.

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Take a few minutes and dream for 2008.

Wouldn’t it be fun to pull these sheets out in about 347 days to reflect on 2008 & plan for 2009? 

Additionally, writing down goals helps us solidify the things we want to do.

Take some time to “Grasp Your Past & Grab Your Future.”

I can almost smell it in the air.  2008 is going to be a good year. 

We finished another chapter of life one week ago today.  For me, I was fully enjoying those last moments in a Thai Village with both new & old friends.  Eariler in the day, a few of us scurried around making the final preparations for the New Year’s festivities planned for the night.

As I waited in line at Party City, I stood amid the long lines of Christmas clearance shoppers and New Year’s Eve Party goers.  I picked out my noise maker and practiced it a few times as my friend stood with his box of confetti poppers.  The stress of the holidays and the unmentioned pressure people feel around this time of year was probably the cause for the glare I received during my noise maker practice session.  As that lady continued to express additional frustration  to her small child, I realized the beginning of a new year does not mean everyone wakes up on January 1 without remants of the previous year, reminding them of success or failure, satisfaction or regret.

I’m uncertain what will be in 2008.  And though there are probably reminders of 2007 still showing up in this new year, the significance of January 1 has maybe more to do with our response to what has been and continues to linger close to us.  Take small steps to make changes.  Next year at this time you won’t believe the progress you’ve made.

Thanks to my old & new friends and probably due to the hysterical events surrounding the new year, this year will be unlike any other I have lived thus far.

I have laughed more & I have been more tired. I have been more hopeful, & I have been more determined & excited about life — 7 days into this new year, than any other new year so far. 

I have great family & great friends.  When I’m discontent with my day job, I get to become an energetic swimming instructor at night — which is a role kids told me all weekend I can do, and I’m finally starting to believe them.  With travels, celebrations & goals to be met this year — 2008 will be 365 days of living, because though I am hopeful about the future, we don’t know what will be tomorrow. 

To 2007 — a fantastic year of refreshing travel, new friends & adventures, & a rejuvenated outlook on life. 

May 2008 be that and so much more.

Cheers!